Anxiety, Perfectionism Susana Lara Anxiety, Perfectionism Susana Lara

Perfectionism: When Perfection Becomes the Flaw

Perfectionism can drive success but often leads to frustration, self-criticism, and emotional exhaustion. High standards, harsh inner critics, and the pursuit of flawlessness can strain relationships and wellbeing. Brief Strategic Therapy (BST) helps break these patterns, teaching practical strategies to embrace imperfections, focus on progress, and reclaim a balanced, fulfilling life.

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Surrendering to Depression: Beyond the Blues

Depression goes beyond sadness. The challenge lies not only in feelings of hopelessness, low motivation, or despondency, but also in how individuals respond to these emotions and the situations that triggered them. Understanding these patterns is key to effective treatment and recovery.

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Trauma, PTSD, Grief, Loss, Anger, Anxiety Susana Lara Trauma, PTSD, Grief, Loss, Anger, Anxiety Susana Lara

The Lingering Wound: When the Past Refuses to Let Go

Experiencing trauma can leave a lasting imprint on a person’s life, creating a distinct "before" and "after." Pain, fear, anger, guilt, and shame may persist long after the event, particularly when coping strategies like avoidance or trying to forget only intensify distress.

Not everyone who experiences trauma develops PTSD, but those who do often get trapped in unhelpful patterns that reinforce fear, flashbacks, nightmares, or emotional numbness. These strategies can contribute to anxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges.

Brief Strategic Therapy (BST) offers a safe and structured approach to help individuals revisit and process traumatic experiences. By addressing the trauma in a guided way, BST transforms lingering wounds into healing scars, restores a sense of control, and helps individuals reclaim their emotional wellbeing. With expert support, trauma survivors can move forward with resilience and rebuild their lives.

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Phobias: Navigating Fear and Anxiety

Fear and anxiety are natural, adaptive responses, helping humans react to perceived threats. However, when these emotions exceed functional levels, they can lead to limitations, phobias, and anxiety-related disorders. Many individuals fall into psychological traps—such as avoidance, repeated help requests, or attempts to control physiological responses—which can intensify fear and reduce self-confidence.

Brief Strategic Therapy (BST) focuses on altering the perception of fear rather than suppressing emotions. By targeting the cognitive and behavioural traps that maintain anxiety, BST helps individuals transform fear into a manageable and constructive response. Unlike approaches that rely solely on knowledge or rationalisation, BST employs suggestive strategies to interrupt unhelpful thought patterns and reshape reactions.

If you struggle with fear, phobias, or anxiety, understanding these patterns and addressing them strategically can empower you to regain control, break free from limiting behaviours, and live with greater courage and resilience.

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